#22: When the Mirror Doesn’t Reflect You Back
Healing the Fixer Pattern and the Pain of Self-Abandonment
Have you ever poured your heart into someone only to realize you were the only one truly present?
This episode isn’t about a breakup. It’s about the pattern underneath it.
The pattern of performing care, translating silence, and calling it love.
In this reflection, I speak to the one who became the mirror…
Not to reflect her truth, but to reflect someone else’s pain.
Together, we’ll explore:
Why you stay in relationships that don’t meet you
The grief that comes with releasing the version of you who made herself small
The identity of “the fixer” and how to lovingly let her rest
A somatic practice to honor the part of you who tried to hold it all together
This is a sacred pause for the one who’s ready to stop performing healing…
and start receiving it.
